Dec 12 2008
The Gift
Well with Christmas coming around again it’s that time of year when everyone starts wondering what gifts to buy – or what gifts they want.
Perhaps it is worth asking then – what is not a gift?
It is as if most people live their life with blinkers on. And, those blinkers seem to be very conditional.
The first condition of those blinkers is the belief that we are all separate, that the self is separate from God; from life.
The second condition is that (given everything is separate) life is seen as a struggle between good and bad; the desirable and the detested.
But if we take off those blinkers we come to see the truth. There IS ONE existence – of which we are all individuated aspects. And instead of a dualistic reaction we see that (as everything is a part of our ONE Self) everything we experience IS our creation. EVERY THING.
We also see how profoundly perfect and intelligent every single thing is: that the universe is an entire intelligent collaboration and that every single thing, every event, every moment is integral to this collaboration.
This means that everything is of purpose. AND that EVERYTHING is actually a GIFT. Every moment is
placed before us, by us in order to fulfill our self through life as a process, expression and experience. In this way, everything we encounter is part of this field of context. And, it is up to us as to how we respond (or more commonly react!) to this.
If we continue meeting it with blinkers on we approach it with a prejudiced mind. We judge some things as good (a gift) and some things as bad (a punishment). We spend a lot of time rejecting a lot of things. This creates a life full of resentments. And, it makes it impossible for us to gain anything from whatever was placed before us.
When we push something away we are pushing away a part of our self. Consequently, we continue to feel as if we are somehow less than whole.
When the blinkers are removed we begin to embrace everything as it is. We begin to embrace EVERY aspect of our self. We yield with our self through each moment. As we do we are able to receive the true purpose of each moment. And, through this, we are able to know and discover our true self. Then we are able to express and give our true self to life – we fulfill our very purpose of existing!
So how do we begin to take off the blinkers?
Say THANK YOU. Yes. Thank you!
Start saying thank you to every moment, to everything. Try saying thank you to the person you see as your enemy, or as your grit in life. Of course, start saying this quietly inside your heart first and you will definitely transform your self and the energy through which you are able to meet this person. You will begin to see the gift they really are!
Try saying thank you for the circumstances and events of your life that you resent. As you say thank you, you may begin to see why YOU created the situation. You will come to see that it is a gift to your self – to experience, to discover, to grow and to express… LOVE.
Try saying thank you to every single moment. Not only will it connect you with everything, it will open your eyes to the perfection of everything… and keep you engaged in the moment. You will feel truly, deeply present, connected with life. You will feel whole. You will feel LOVE. And that is the gift of life, in everything.
That means you don’t need to wait for one day out of the year to feel like all of your Christmas’s have come at once!
Blessings,
And enjoy the ever present delivery of life’s gifts,
LOVE,
Isira.
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